Thoughts on my
High School Reunion
After 30 years I realized that these are my people,
Diverse and transformed but still very mindful.
Cutting through the fray, bringing the truth into view,
Walking through the years was humbling and new.
With knowledge and understanding, classmates poured out
their hearts;
Where do you live, howzur family, where do I start!?
So many present, too many missing;
We did a whole lot of hugging and even some kissing.
Happy smiles, warm hugs, I can’t believe we’re pushing 50.
Girls from Dallas
were fabulous, and the boys looked nifty.
You’d think after three days, we’d run out of bull,
But knowing that time was short was a subconscious pull.
Which night was most special, whom did you meet?
I came home with a throbbing head and raspy voice, but I was
tapping my feet!
After such long separation, what did you see?
Did you hear what I said, did you listen to me?
History shared, good or bad, up or down;
Some brought spouses, some came from faraway towns.
Will you meet me in Dallas ,
not in just 5 years, but ten?
For a few this was it; we’ll never see you again.
Loud music, cheap beer, laughter and yelling,
If there’s a better plan for ’23, the officers aren't
telling.
I’m glad there were no good-byes, we went quietly into the
night, the DCC shut us down and closed all the doors very tight.
There wasn’t enough time to tell every story,
Try as we did, we couldn’t rehash all the glory,
Some of us were bigger, some of us were grayer,
Most had some bruises when you peeled back a layer.
Joy, freedom, relief, forgiveness, grace, humility, concern.
I met this with every friend to whom I would turn.
New faces, old lines, new stories, old truths,
Where did the time go? Squandered on youth?
I saw football stars cry, there were heathens squeaky clean;
Some of the nicest ladies I met, as coeds were quite mean.
Schadenfreude gave way to grace,
Humility overcame pride,
This reunion was lived from the inside.
All of us are damaged, everyone by now is broken;
These deep truths resonated in every word that was spoken.
As a large tree spreads its branches, so has the Class of
1983: crooked bends and gnarled bark showing the perennial effects of its
growth.
However, the comfort & grace provided by its majestic
canopy gives all who see it confidence and peaceful shade from the brutal
environment.
I am so thankful for the blessing of returning to Dallas , and coming
together again for my 30th reunion. It surpassed all my
expectations, which started pretty big, as you read on August 5th (previous post).
We have a wonderful group of friends and a solid base to which we will return,
Lord willing, in 10 years. Thank you for an enduring set of memories,
especially Saturday night when Jason spoke. I’m sure often I will pause to remember,
until the images fade.
By then, in another decade; more poets, sages, elders,
and saints will arrive with more stories to tell; and I fully expect the
relief and gratitude then, will exceed even this memorable event. Words really
cannot express that loving spark between two old friends, who look deeply into
each other’s eyes and relish the moment of remembrance and celebration of the
present.
We've come to an understanding that aging is a journey with many
unplanned stops; and that we are so appreciative to have made it this far. Walls
came down and the Spirit entered over the rubble. Loving camaraderie transcended
gender, age, body shape, socio-economic status, geography, even history; as time’s leveling
effect set us on a course of winsome reunion.
Soaring on the updraft of good
times, I glided home on the long migration south to Houston , landing firmly in reality on Monday
morning. No voice, bronchitis, too much unfinished work.
But we saw a glimpse of
heaven and I will never forget it.
©Mark
H. Pillsbury
