Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts
Showing posts with label respect. Show all posts

Friday, September 7, 2012

God Gets The Last Word: Cardinal Dolan's Pro-Life Benediction at #DNC2012

God Gets The Last Word: Cardinal's Pro-Life Benediction:

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The current Archbishop of New York, Cardinal Timothy Dolan's sobering closing prayer at the Democratic National Convention last night reminded me of a classic scene, wherein parents come home from vacation a day earlier than planned on a late evening flight. 

At 2AM they pull into their driveway clueless, next finding 25 drunken teenagers spread across the living room in various states of consciousness and dress. The only thing anyone can say is nothing, as everyone bolts for the exits!

Watching these sleepy delegates' reactions to the benediction is priceless. My total respect for the Cardinal is unbounded as he speaks unflinching truth and humble prayers to God, of which they earlier tried to exclude from the platform. I could only feel astonishment that after 4 days of political platitudes; finally, someone spoke the truth to these poor folks. This clip is worth your time. [see link posted above; play time > 5 min.]

©Mark H. Pillsbury

Monday, April 30, 2012

Checking in with the Millennial Generation

What is up with the Millennial Generation?

50 million Millennials span the ages of 18-30 (they were born after 1982). They are more tech-savvy than any other group and they voted for Barak Obama at a 2-to-1 ratio of other generations. 


They are self-confident but unlike baby-boomers, not morally superior. They may be better educated because of the stiff headwinds they faced during the Great Recession. Many Millennial youngsters are still in school.

Millennials diminished sense of economic opportunity remains focused almost entirely on the job market. About two-thirds of Millennials are employed but only slightly half of those are working full-time. Almost two-thirds of Millennials without a job are looking for work.

For those in the workplace these responses* were given about:

When recruiting Millennial generation:
·  93% of Millennials want a job that works with their lifestyle.
·  93% of Millennials want a job where they can be themselves.
·  88% of Millennials want their coworkers to be their friends.
·  89% of Millennials want their workplace to be social and fun.
·  79% of Millennials think they should be allowed to wear jeans to work at least sometimes.
·  81% of Millennials think they should be allowed to make their own hours at work.
·  92% of Millennials think their company is lucky to have them as an employee.
·  Half of Millennials would rather have no job than have a job they hate

When managing Millennial generation:
·  The three most critical aspects of their work are work/life balance, loving what they do, and having good benefits. Having a good salary and vacation time are important, but not their key drivers.
·  76% of Millennials think their boss could learn a lot from them.
·  8 out of 10 Millennials want regular feedback from their boss.
·  8 out of 10 Millennials think they deserve to be recognized more for their work.
·  Over half of Millennials want feedback at least once a week or more.
·  Three-fourths of Millennials want to work for themselves one day.
·  Three-fourths of Millennials would like to have a mentor.
·  61% of Millennials say they need specific directions from their boss to do their best work.
(research released by Nick Shore, Sr. Vice president, strategic insights and research at MTV network)

How to appreciate a Millennial:
Leaders, listen up. Instead of giving your team members the usual kudos for their good work, try something more personal and meaningful:  walk them into their office, close the door, and tell them how important their contribution is to the organization. Hand-written notes are back. Get out your pen and start writing!

How this new trend in the workforce is a back to basics, humane approach:
The results seem to show a smoothing out of the workforce into a comfortable environment and a perpetual feedback loop. Dress can be casual, and management hierarchy is flatter. Despite the grim economic environment Millennials are still confident about their future and actually want to be treated as individuals, not cogs in a machine. They have the self-respect to be bold enough to ask for humane treatment; Millennials are realistic about their situation and their future.

These are often 30-something emerging managers who will be the talent and bedrock of many corporate teams. Will they care about ethics and reasonableness enough to not lie, cheat, and steal from shareholders and the stock markets? Are they cocky and petulant, or principled and wise? Only time will tell.

Millennial employees want to be treated as we always should have treated co-workers, with respect, with the desire to have their input and foster their creativity. They will inevitably bring to our workplaces a more progressive and civil authority now, and as they grow into the next generation of leaders. They have seen the turn of a millennium (thus the generation's name), 9/11 attacks, the worst economic downturn in decades, and a long overseas war for which many volunteered.

This is a force to be reckoned with. The other generations should pay attention. ##


(*information based on a survey of Millennials by MTV, otherwise, opinions are solely my own)

Tuesday, December 13, 2011

In Canada, Royal Couple Comfort Cancer Patient with Only Weeks to Live - Urban Christian News

In Canada, Royal Couple Comfort Cancer Patient with Only Weeks to Live - Urban Christian News:

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While the royal couple, William and Kate visited Canada in July 2011, they took the time to speak to an Ottawa man with terminal cancer, 47 year old Terry Joyce.


[From Canadian news reports:  It was a touching moment that reduced Mr. Joyce, who lives in the Bruyere Hospice, to tears. He said: “This has given me a tremendous lift. It goes to show that we have a wonderful monarchy and we really need people like this. I was told a week ago I would be meeting them and I have been looking forward to it ever since. It has been one of the best days of my life.”]

As we watched the report of this tonight on NBC, we were able to share with our children what happened to Princess Diana; but more importantly we told them that she was compassionate with people with AIDS and victims of land mine explosions, recovering in hospitals. We told them that even though she was dead, she would have been proud of her son's behavior in Canada, last July.

William took the time during an amazingly busy schedule in Canada to speak over 5 minutes personally with Terry Joyce, who later said it was "the best day of his life." Observing the video of how William asked Kate to come over to speak, and the gentle way they comforted Mr. Joyce as he sat in a wheelchair was the most remarkable part of the trip in my opinion. As much as Brits criticize their royals, it was a heartwarming show of love for a common (dying) Canadian. It was the perfect example of public relations, humility, and love of people. William and Kate seem like they were born for their duties.

We explained that everyone wants to be around royal couples, but the genuine love that comes when one human recognizes the terminal condition of someone else, and treats them with dignity and respect; transcends celebrity or fame. Whether royal or common, we explained, people love to associate with others who take notice of their plight, communicate honestly, and show a true regard for our shared lives as fellow humans.

I think Princess Diana took her sons with her to all the corners of the earth, often in dirty, uncomfortable situations, to inculcate them with a regard for all human beings whatever their circumstances. Compassionate leadership comes from an internal force of character, not a position in a royal family. Love for one's fellow man, or even "subjects," as in Canada, comes from identification of one's struggles, whether cancer, or losing a dear mother at a young age. This trip was a great start for the new royal couple, and they now have a fan in Texas. I can't wait to meet them someday!

Postscript: Terry Joyce passed away from Cancer in Ottawa, 52 days after being warmly greeted by the royal couple.

©Mark H. Pillsbury